Covid and Lockdown impacted on individuals and families in many different ways. The lack of routine and structure meant we were no longer able to make the decisions we normally...
The pandemic brought immense challenge and disruption for young people. From school/college closures, to cancelled exams, to the introduction of teacher-assessed grades followed by....
Many people living with Long Covid are struggling to live the life they used to. With crushing chronic fatigue and a whole host of other physical symptoms, some people are unable to work, keep up their...
During lockdown I continued to work with young people and adults who were happy or able to move to remote counselling sessions. I supported these clients with managing the many...
Covid and lockdown impacted on individuals and families in many different ways. The lack of routine and structure meant we were no longer able to make the decisions we normally made about where to go, what to do and when. This impacted greatly on our sense of control. The fear of contagion, exacerbated by the daily reports of infection and death tolls led to debilitating anxiety for some. For many, the imposed period of isolation was challenging and unbearable at times. For some vulnerable people lockdown was extremely unsafe. And sadly, for lots of families, there was the loss of loved ones.
While many see the pandemic as over, there is a lot of research to show that it is continuing to deeply affect the lives of some people. Whilst many people have ‘bounced back’, some are still struggling to adjust to life ‘post-Covid and may need therapeutic support to find new ways of coping, as well as helping them make sense of what happened. Each individual has their own pandemic ‘story’ or experience, all of which include ‘loss’ of some sort.
The pandemic brought immense challenge and disruption for young people. From school/college closures, to cancelled exams, to the introduction of teacher-assessed grades followed by the return to traditional exams. The loss of learning and structure caused considerable stress and anxiety for young people of all ages.
Jonathan Townsend, the UK chief executive of The Prince’s Trust, which spoke to 2,025 young people aged 16 to 25, said: “The pandemic is still having a debilitating impact on young people’s plans, confidence and hopes for a positive future. It has left these young people worried about their skills and qualifications, and lacking confidence in their ability to secure a job or achieve their future career goals.” Its research found that almost half of the young people questioned felt hopeless about the future.
There has also been a significant impact on socialisation with some young people losing the confidence and skills to make and maintain friendships. Self-esteem has been affected and for some it has led to a total erosion of resilience. Lockdown loneliness and social isolation have really taken their toll on some young people. When lessons shifted online it pushed young people even further into living in the online world, away from the real, physical world. Stepping back into this world has been incredibly tough for some. Heightened anxiety levels and increased low mood and depression are affecting many of the younger generation. Responding to the needs of these young people is paramount.
Many people living with Long Covid are struggling to live the life they used to. With crushing chronic fatigue and a whole host of other physical symptoms, some people are unable to work, keep up their fitness levels or maintain social connections.
Psychological rehabilitation is just as important as physical rehabilitation in supporting people with Long Covid. There can be an incredible amount of loss - loss of capacity, loss of functionality, loss of identity, loss of social role, loss of friendships, relationships, job or career. A central element of therapeutic work may be supporting people with managing anger and denial after loss and helping them move towards hope and courageous acceptance. The ‘rescripting’ of their lives and compassion for their changed self is a vital part of this transition and adjustment.
During lockdown I continued to work with young people and adults who were able to move to remote counselling sessions. I supported these clients with managing the many changes to life as we knew it. I provided a safe space for them to explore their worries and fears. Often, I helped them to deal with loss - whether it was loss of not having your long awaited Year 11 leavers’ celebration (and knowing you will never get that time or opportunity back) or loss of important day to day routine (when your bedroom suddenly becomes your classroom, your bed is your new school desk and getting to sleep is a nightmare) or the loss of a loved one (who you were unable to visit in hospital and never had the chance to hold and say goodbye). Loss comes in many shapes and forms.
I have continued to support people who are still feeling the effects of the pandemic, helping them to process their experiences and adjust to life now. Working with self-esteem and identity is often a big part of this, particularly with young people.
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